hi please help

By tabby201 on Thu, 02-23-12, 22:08

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Breast Cancer

hey well im new to this group but i need someone to talk to. my mom has breast cancer and i been trying to deal with this for a year now. i know shes going to be fine and i have faith in god that he will heal her. the people at the cancer center are really nice and its like you can trust them but its still hard seeing her going through the chemo and radiation and some times she can be fine and smiling and everything but other days shes not well and i know shes not okay but she never tells me. i just found out last eek that the cancer had spreaded in her brain but the tumor is not even 1 inch. i just need someone to talk to and help me get through this and help me be strong for my mom.

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By numb86 on Thu, 02-23-12, 22:44

I am sorry to hear about your mom. You can message me and I can try to help you through some of these tough times. You are right about having to have faith in God because He can heal. I can't say that I have been through this same situation so I am not even going to pretend to tell you that I know what it is like because I don't. But I can tell how much you are hurting and I don't want that for you.

Hold me now
I'm six feet from the edge and I'm thinkin
Maybe six feet ain't so far down
--Creed

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By KathieP on Thu, 03-01-12, 14:49

Hey tabby201, I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. My mother was diagnosed last year with breast cancer too. And it was the scariest moment of my life. It's overwhelming. If you're interested, http://onlineceucredit.com/edu/social-work-ceus-ccp has some great advice for families of cancer patients. It helped me a lot during that trying time. Stay strong. And know that your mom is strong too. Be there for her, love her. That's the best and most important thing you could ever do.

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By Jonetia Sheff on Mon, 04-09-12, 08:31

Hey tabby201, hugs to you. I'm a breast cancer survivor but my Mother is losing her battle with lung cancer. It is now in her brain as well as other areas. We went through treatments together and thought we were both beating it. It is so hard to see our dear Mothers in pain and working so hard to be strong for every one else.

Mom says that one of the most comforting things I did for her was just curling up on the bed beside her and holding her hand. We would talk off and on about flowers (her favorite subject) but mostly I just held her hand.

Keep in touch please.

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